If you re not going to love someone as they are, don t even bother trying to change them. You will never find true love if you make a person change. The only way to find true love, is to love and accept every flaw and perfection a person has.
Two people are in a relationship for a reason; not to give up on each other so easily, no matter how tough the situations might be, you certainly try your best to work through it and not give up on them. That’s why it’s called a RELATIONSHIP, and it’s between you and your significant other, working together.
When you meet the right person to love at the right place, at the right time, that’s a CHANCE.
Being caught that there are manypeople out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer than your mate and yet you decide to love your mate just the same, that’s a CHOICE.
Fate bringsyou together, but it’s still up to you to make it happen.
We may meet someone by CHANCE, but loving and staying with someone is still a CHOICE.. :)
A great lesson from Ally Mcbeal :
” if u see me walking d road w/ sum1 else, it is not bcoz i like dat person’s company, it is bcoz u r were not brave enuf to walk beside me.
if u hear me talking bout dat person all d tym, it is not bcoz all person pleases me, it is bcoz u were deaf to hear my heart beating.
if u feel me falling w/ sum1 new, it is not bcoz i love dat person, it is bcoz u were not there to CATCH ME . . . “
Ment0r t0ld me t0 remember. The 3 L’s:
He asked me which was the m0st imp0rtant.. I said “LIVE, because if I d0n’t live, I can’t laugh & l0ve.”
He c0rrected me.. “L0VE is the m0st imp0rtant thing am0ng the three because if u never find l0ve, y0u’ll never fully laugh and never c0mpletely understand the meaning 0f living.”
..”Jesus is my Ment0r”
A blessed m0rning!